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TREATMENT
A therapeutic relationship is quite unique and somewhat
different from the relationships you have with most other
professionals. As a result, there are some expectations and
procedures that must govern interactions if therapy is going
to be effective. Some of these include the following:
Appointments need to start on time and end on time out of
respect for you and other patients who come to the clinic.
We invite you to come a few minutes early to each
appointment, enjoy the relaxing music in the lobby, and
think about your goals for therapy and how you would like to
use the session to work towards those goals. At the
beginning of our sessions, you will jointly outline the
agenda for how time will be spent which means you're
expected to collaborate in planning throughout the therapy
process.
Although therapy can be difficult at times, there is an
expectation that you to make a good faith effort towards
your own progress in treatment. If you are given assignments
between sessions, it will be important that you complete
these prior to the following appointment. There is an
expectation that you will be honest with your clinician
throughout the therapeutic process. This is especially true
if you ever experience thoughts about hurting yourself or
someone else. If you are taking medications under the
direction of a health provider, you are expected to be
compliant with such direction and if you choose to
discontinue use of medications it should be under medical
direction.
Psychotherapy has both benefits and risks. Since therapy
often involves discussing unpleasant aspects of your life,
you may experience uncomfortable feelings like sadness,
guilt, anger, frustration, loneliness, and helplessness. You
are expected to be willing to take risks and try new things
in therapy as part of the process of change. This may
require you to share feelings or thoughts that are
uncomfortable or unpleasant for you to express. On the other
hand, psychotherapy also has many benefits. Therapy often
leads to better relationships, solutions to specific
problems, and significant reductions in feelings of
distress. Although there are not guarantees, your experience
is likely to be proportionate to the amount of energy and
effort you put forth during the therapeutic process.
Research has shown therapy to be beneficial for those that
seek help. In general, those in therapy do better then 80%
of those not engaged in some sort of therapeutic process.
There are some individuals who show signs of improvement,
approximately 43%, without involvement in any therapy
process. In some rare occasions, approximately 5% of
patients regress following treatment into a more severe
condition. In general, most people report that the odds of
being helped by therapy far out weigh the potential risks.
There are however, alternatives such as self-help books and
various community support groups facilitated by
non-professionals. If these options are of interest to you,
we are willing to make some recommendations based on what
others have found helpful.
The first few sessions will focus on evaluating and
assessing your needs. It is an information gathering process
and it is likely that you will not feel much different after
these first few sessions as the assessment process doesn't
involve therapy. During this period, you may complete
several psychological tests to help us understand your
issues. At the end of this initial evaluation period, your
clinician will offer some initial impressions about what has
been observed, thoughts about what might be creating
distress for you, and possible solutions about how to
resolve such issues. With your therapist, you will discuss a
rough draft of what a treatment plan might look like if you
choose to continue therapy. You too, will be conducting your
own evaluation of how you experience your therapist, the
information you are given, and your feelings about a
goodness of fit. There are several questions you are
encouraged to answer as you consider whether you want to
continue seeing your therapist. These questions may include:
- Do I feel like my therapist is authentic, genuine,
and sincere?
- Does my therapist seem personable? Are they the type
of person I feel comfortable interacting with?
- Do they communicate their ideas well?
- Are they competent? For example, does their work
suggest they are keeping current with what the mental
health field promotes as best practices?
- Do they incorporate findings from the social science
research into their work?
- Can they engage me? Although clients must co-create
what happens in therapy, can the therapist interact with
me in a manner that keeps me involved in the session?
- Did they give me helpful feedback? Do they provide
feedback that is tangible and useful for me? Can they
give me harsh feedback gently?
- Can they move beyond my defenses and take me places
I really want to go but might be afraid to explore? Do
they respect where I am at and yet encourage me to do
some risk taking?
- Are they empathic and can they validate my fears and
concerns?
- Can they move beyond surface issues and understand
the core dynamics of presenting problems? Do they deeply
understand human nature?
- Are they willing to disclose how they experience me
as a person and also be willing to listen to how I
experience them?
- Will they use some psychological testing or other
objective measures as part of our work together? For
example, do they use any objective measure in assessment
or monitoring outcomes?
- How will they monitor our relationship throughout
treatment? How will they address problems that may arise
between how we see things differently?
- Does my therapist seem committed to confidentiality
and keeping the content and details of our sessions
private, with the exceptions of limits to
confidentiality mandated by law?
Because therapy involves a large commitment of your time and
energy, you should consider these questions carefully. If
you feel like your therapists style isn't working for you,
we encourage you to talk to them about your concerns or any
of the procedures used that might be confusing to you. If,
after discussing your concerns you feel there isn't a good
fit, we are willing to make recommendations to other mental
health professionals that we believe do good work but differ
from the style of your current therapists. We can also
transfer a summary of any evaluations or assessments
conducted at our clinic so this information will be
available to them.
If you choose to work with me, we will outline a treatment
plan with goals and objectives that incorporate changes you
would like to make. If a mental health diagnosis is
warranted, this will be discussed with you and the
implications of such a diagnosis. For example, if you met
the criteria for depression, you and your therapist would
talk about what that means and how such labels are helpful
or potentially harmful. Therapy sessions are usually
scheduled at the conclusion of appointments with the
secretary, and on average, clients are seen once a week for
50 minutes for individual psychotherapy and 75 minutes for
couples therapy. Some cases may require sessions to be
longer or more frequent.
As part of treatment, the clinic routinely administer
questionnaires that help us track your progress and offer us
some feedback on how you are doing. In order to make sure we
have the time we need for our session, please come a few
minutes early to complete these questionnaires. The
secretary will give you a palm-pilot when you arrive and you
can take a few minutes to fill it out. At the conclusion of
sessions, you will receive an email later that day asking
for feedback on your session with a link to our web site
that lets you respond. This feedback is helpful in guiding
interactions between you and your therapist and making sure
that the relationship is operating the way it needs to so
you can increase the likelihood of a positive outcome in
treatment.
A common question that is often asked is "how long will I be
in therapy?" This is a difficult question to answer as there
are many factors that influence your ability to have a
successful outcome. Some people start therapy will multiple
issues (e.g. anxiety, depression, martial problems) which
take longer to resolve. Some problems such as addictions
generally take longer to treat. Subsequently, without
knowing the specific details of your situation it is a hard
to answer. However, you can ask your therapist at the time
they have completed the evaluation and they will be better
able to provide you with an idea of what your course of
treatment might look like.
You participation in treatment is voluntary and you can
withdraw at any time if you do not feel satisfied with the
services you are receiving. Additionally, if you require
services we cannot offer, we am willing to refer you to
another provider who can. A common situation where this
occurs is when an individual might also need couples
counseling. It is usually not wise for client's individual
therapist to also be their marriage counselor. As a result,
in such cases, your therapist will either be the marriage
counselor or the individual therapist and have another
mental health professional help offer the additional
counseling. This does not preclude therapists from
periodically having individual sessions with a couple with
whom they are working or a couple session with an individual
they are treating. However, these sessions are periodic, not
long term arrangements.
I offers several services you might like to be aware of
including individual, couples, and family therapy. I provide
some group therapy with some clinics, but not with others. I
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